AIC 7: Developing a Meaningful Relationship with God

When Rene and Agnes were first married, they believed that theirs was the greatest marriage ever. They were so much in love and adored each other in a way they felt would never end.

As the months and years passed, however, Rene began to spend more and more time in his very successful business, and Agnes gave a great deal of her time to the children. Of course, they still felt they loved each other. Rene repaired the house when necessary, paid the bills and bought Agnes expensive gifts on her birthday and holidays. Agnes cooked Rene special dinners from time to time, made sure that the house was clean when he arrived home, and kept up their image in the community projects.

But as time went by, they began to neglect those special efforts to please each other. Each thought, “With my busy schedule, surely he/she will understand.” Although they did not have much time to spend with each other, they felt they were making normal progress as a married couple.

Nevertheless, six years after they were married, they began to have doubts whether they were “right” for each other, and went to see a marriage counselor.

When did Rene and Agnes’ relationship begin to end?

What are some things they should have done to keep their relationship vital and enjoyable?

Consider how this marriage relationship compares with our relationship with God. What do we need to do to be sure that our relationship with God is kept vital and enjoyable?

Observation - In this step, you observe in order to find out what the passage says. You may need to read the passage several times, or you may wish to write out the passage, concentrating on “What does the passage say?”

Interpretation - The second step involves the question, “What does this passage mean?” Study the passage in its context (the rest of the chapter or book) to help you understand it.

Application - In this step you ask the question, “How does this passage apply to my life?” You may ask the following questions:

• Is there a command to obey?

• Is there a promise to claim?

• Is there a sin to confess?

• Is there an attitude to change?

• Is there an example to follow?